I work with committed men who are tired of stepping on landmines with their partner, questioning the future of their marriage or relationship, and wanting to improve their relationship to conquer their relationship challenges once and for all.
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Testimonials
Working with Stuart has been transformative for me as a man and husband. His guidance and support have helped me gain confidence in myself and in my role within my relationship. I feel like a different person, more secure and capable, and I owe it all to Stuart’s coaching. I couldn’t have made these positive changes without his expertise and encouragement. Thank you, Stuart, for helping me become the best version of myself.
Stuart offered me concrete tools which I was able to put into action immediately to help me keep my cool during conflict with my wife. Instead of acting like I am getting attacked, which I did for years, I am now able to stay calm and present, and most importantly listen deeply to my wife’s concerns. That’s been a game-changer in our marriage. I highly recommend working with Stuart to help you be a stronger and more empowered man in your relationship.
Stuart has an impressive balance of both knowledge and experience. He has not only shared many valuable relationship tools with me, but has also helped me to develop my own tools for pursuing the things I desire. He practices what he preaches and has guided me to leave what was holding me back. I have a renewed outlook on life, myself and my relationships. He has been a great mentor, confidant and friend.
I happened on Stuart by accident while searching for answers. I had been in therapy for six months and had run its course. Big difference between therapy and coaching. Therapy discusses while coaching provides concrete instruction. That made all the difference and his direct approach gave me the guidance I needed to get my life back. Thanks!
I came to Stuart experiencing intense emotional distress with my wife, feeling like I could never be enough for her. Working with Stuart taught me that my distress was more about me than her. With his help, I learned to take care of myself, rely on me for my well-being, and become a better version of myself and as a result, more lovable to my wife again. I now have the experience of a marriage of beautiful potential again.
My wife wasn’t mad or angry…worse…she had become indifferent. Working with Stuart has been life-changing. He didn’t give me a scripted playbook or silly tricks to fix my marriage. He let me talk and invited me to go deeper than I ever had with myself. I discovered I too had a lot of hurt I had to address before I could grow.
The notion of “nothing makes my wife happy” is not true. For years I thought I was doing all the “right things” but I wasn’t doing them with the right heart and mindset. Women know when we are appeasing and going through the motions. I have learned to stop apologizing for everything, to be curious when she is upset, and to be assertive to let her feminine energy come out.
Stuart helped me uncover for myself that my wife fell in love with the real me yet I had transformed into a passive version of what I thought she wanted me to be…I love my wife enough to be the man she fell in love with.
Before working with Stuart, I previously went through about a year and a half of marriage counseling with my wife, which was helpful, but I didn’t feel like I came away with a solid grasp of some specific tools and strategies that I could easily relate to and put into practice. Within a few weeks of coaching with Stuart, I was given several practical examples of relationship building structures that I felt comfortable implementing to improve the difficult relationship dynamics that were taking place between my wife and myself.
Not only that, Stuart also helped me better understand what was going on inside my head and heart and see how some of the personal challenges of my past were bringing unintended conflict to my marriage today. I truly appreciate Stuart’s style of teaching and coaching and recommend his services if you are struggling with how to become more relational in your marriage.
After I tried multiple therapists, none of who gave me any direction, Stuart quickly helped me get unstuck from behaviors that held me back in my marriage. He understood me and what I was going through. He didn’t just let me talk on and on about the drama of the week. He really dug into stuff and called me out on self-destructive behavioral patterns that I had no idea were in my wheelhouse.
I went to him thinking I was just needing to deal with my marriage but instead I learned about how I want run my life, my relationship, and be the man I want to be. I now have tools for the rest of my life on how to approach relationship and life from a place of strength and competency.
I had taken as many courses and read as many books and done as much work on my own on personal development and communication as I possibly could and I still felt I couldn’t create the relationships I wanted. Then I found Stuart. Working with him has been transformative in every area of my life. He helped me tap into the parts of me that had shut down. He challenged me to be a better man in the way that only another masculine man can.
My relationship at home with my wife and kids are greatly improved as a man who shows up to lead his life. Work with Stuart, the best version of you is in there and he has tools and resources and experience to reflect that back to you. The world right now needs the best you to show up
I sought out Stuart because I felt stuck in my marriage and was questioning whether or not it was going to work. At first, I wasn’t even sure what I was looking for. But through our 6 months of working together, Stuart helped me see my wife, family and marriage in a new light. He provided me with actionable tools that have already paid dividends not just in my marriage but also in my businesses. I’m confident that the 6 months of us working together saved me years of unhappiness. Huge thanks!
Working with Stuart has been a life changing opportunity. Prior to our work together, I spent most of my time blaming my wife for my insecurities. Stuart helped me address the younger me that was running my marriage and instead gain a clear vision of the man I really want to be. I’m grateful for our time and I don’t have enough words to say how appreciative I am for Stuart’s guidance.
My marriage was pretty much dead when I began working with Stuart. Now, my spouse and I treat each other with respect and we have a more enjoyable relationship. I am setting boundaries and I am more responsive than reactive. I feel more confident. Stuart Motola is an excellent relationship coach who knows his stuff and has incredible insights and advice. I highly recommend his services.
I initially started working with Stuart to help me with my marriage and repair years of broken trust and safety within my relationship. What started as a journey to fix my marriage, evolved into something I wasn’t expecting. What I learned was how to repair the relationship with myself, uncovering parts of my inner being that I was unaware of, while enhancing some of the best features and characteristics I have as a human.
He’s helped me transform into the man I’m supposed to be while teaching me about archetypes and other tools I was unable to learn in over 5 years of therapy.
Stuart isn’t just a coach who helps guys get it right in their marriage, he’s a friend who creates a safe space for a man to be vulnerable and honest, allowing him to grow, heal, and evolve into the person they are supposed to be.
Before I started working with Stuart, I felt I had lost my sense of identity in my marriage. I struggled to claim who I was and often acquiesced to my wife’s needs. Over the course of six months, Stuart helped me to take a step back from who I was in my relationship. He gave me the tools which helped me grow again and to find my true self. I learned how to be myself in my relationships, both with my wife and with colleagues. I’m now excited about my life and future prospects – I feel like I can assert myself in the world again.
When I started working with Stuart, I was in the worst place I have been in my life. Stuart, with his coaching, gave me the tools to find the way back to my true self, to a place where I can assert myself and, at the same time, recognize my emotions. Where I can be kind and welcoming without betraying who I am.
After trying to solve my relationship challenges with several therapists, who did not help me address the core of my problems, I thankfully came across Stuart. In a short time, he helped me reclaim my relationship with myself, so that I could get clarity on the future of my marriage. Stuart’s experienced guidance has been a transformational experience for me.
I tried so hard with my wife at the time. All I did was try and it was never good enough. I’d resigned myself to not being enough for her. This is marriage, I assumed, what I signed up for. But during my work with Stuart, I learned to detach from her story of who I was. I learned to determine my own path, live my own truth, instead of being subject to hers. I came back into my own sense of who I was, and my wants and needs. And that was the greatest gift of my work with Stuart.
Working with Stuart, I went from the rat wheel to a place of clarity and empowerment in my relationship.
Stuart’s program was insightful and very unique. The tools he provided and coached me through created a depth of understanding who and what I am that was very powerful.
