Deep In The Heart Of The Blue Ridge Mountains
Asheville, NC
Limited to 12 Men
REGISTRATION CLOSED
Learn How To Lead Your Relationship
As A Calm, Cool, & Confident Man
To Create Trust & Connection With Your Partner
Marriage, long term relationship – they are a major challenge for many of us guys today.
Relationship will present you with great struggles and even at times threaten the core of your identity.
You may be wondering right now…
- How can I make her happy?
- How can I be enough for her?
- How can I ask for what I want from her?
In the age of the empowered woman, creating a fulfilling long term relationship is the biggest challenge you may experience.
Relationship will test your ability to provide strength, calm, and steadiness for your partner, your kids, and yourself – emotionally, mentally, financially.
It will test your ability to bring forth kindness, compassion, and trust.
It will test you to the brink of failure.
And herein lies the opportunity of a lifetime.
Like many men who we work with, you may wonder, how come I can be so successful at work and yet with my wife or partner, I struggle so much?
What you don’t realize is that there are a whole different set of rules operating in relationship versus work.
In this deep dive training, we will deliver to you a deep understanding of how to bring the natural leader in you to your relationship.
In a beautiful location in the heart of the Blue Ridge Mountains in a transformational space away from home and with other like-minded men, you will get a break from it all to get clarity to achieve the upper hand on your relationship challenges.
During the course of four days, with a small group of 12 men, you will learn how to…
- Not fall into the same old rabbit holes of conflict with your partner.
- Engage in tough conversations productively.
- Handle interactions with your partner from a place of strength and poise.
- Create more respect, trust, safety, and sex with your partner.
- Become a more powerful, capable, and confident version of yourself in relationship.
This 4 day retreat is limited to 12 men only. These are men just like you, facing the same challenges in their relationship. Other men saying to themselves, I need to own my challenges and make change in my relationship.
Or book a call with Stuart to explore how this retreat can help you.
During the retreat, you will tackle questions like:
- Why does her behavior get me so riled up?
- Why do I want to hide out from her at times?
- Why is she so negative with me?
- How come I feel like I’ve lost my identity with her?
- What can I do about it all?
We’ll look at:
- What she does that pisses you off and how you react to make things worse.
- Critical parts of yourself that you exile or suppress to not upset her.
- How your current perspective of your relationship limits your ability to make change.
- How to strengthen your masculinity to create the relationship you want.
- Accepting her as she is AND clearly asking for what you want.
This retreat is a good fit for you if…
- You’re willing to take time away from your life to transform how you approach your relationship.
- You are ready to move past mere information and step into action in your relationship.
- Your relationship is a top priority.
This is NOT for the guy who wants…
- Quick answers and solutions without putting in any work.
- A weekend getaway to escape his challenges.
- To hide out blaming his partner for all his challenges.
In the comfort of a multiple home property, you will have:
- A life-changing transformational experience built on 15 years of creating similar experiences for men.
Retreat Format
Each day you will experience…
- Relationship teachings and experiential training based on 15 years of relationship coaching.
- Small group interactions for a deeper dive and more personal time with our facilitators.
- Solo time to decompress, relax on the land, and enjoy spectacular natural surroundings.
What you can expect to get out of this retreat.
- A more solid sense of your self-worth.
- An empowered perspective to create the change you seek with your partner.
- An awareness of the ways that you step on landmines and how to stop doing so.
- Increased confidence to wisely engage relational risks.
- A band of brothers to support you.
Book a call with Stuart to ensure this retreat is a good fit for you.
Accommodations
Accommodations range from King beds with master bath, queen beds, twin, and bunk beds. Prices listed below reflect your choice of accommodations on a first come first serve basis as available.
Your Investment
The investment for our retreat is $1,595 to $2,195
depending on the accommodations you select.
$1,595 – bunk bed in shared room
$1,795 – queen bed in shared room
$1,995 – queen bed in own room
$2,195 – king bed in own room and master bath
Save $300 when registering prior to August 22.
No refunds after August 22.
Prices above do not include travel for those traveling from out of town.
You may secure your spot immediately with a $695 deposit
with the balance to be paid in full by August 31.
If traveling from out of town…
Check Alegiantair.com for possible direct flights to Asheville, NC.
Friday lodging in Asheville and dinner will be available for an additional $200.
Read Prior To Registering:
1. To ensure a cohesive experience, you will be required to join a pre-training Zoom Call (Wed, September 20 at 8pm ET) to meet staff and other participants and to clarify your intentions.
2. During the retreat, you will be asked to unplug and be offline for several days (emergency contact will be available), and arrive on site at our location outside Asheville, North Carolina at 2pm ET Saturday September 23. Transportation will be provided if necessary.
3. For those traveling from out of town, Friday night community dinner and lodging in downtown Asheville, NC will be offered at an additional cost.
4. To help you integrate and bring into your life all that you learned during our time together, please plan to join 2 Zoom Calls post retreat (times TBD).
5. To keep you accountable to your goals, initiate new behaviors with your partner, and not go it alone, you are asked to commit to connect with another man weekly post retreat.
The Facilitators
Stuart Motola is a professional men’s relationship coach, facilitator, & author. During the course of his 20 year marriage, he went through many of the challenges you’re going through. His challenges and triumphs are spoken to in his book Fixing You Is Killing Me . He has coached men for 15 years and facilitated thousands of men in online and in-person programs. He prides himself on his ability to create a strong connection between men in a safe and vulnerable space. He offers a deep experience of relational skills that you can put into action quickly with payoffs.
Brent Skidmore has 10 years experience participating and guiding men to experience more clarity, integrity, and heart in their lives. He has been a leader and facilitator in the Mankind Project community in Asheville, NC.He has taught for twenty-six years at universities and craft programs across the country, such as Penland, Arrowmont, Anderson Ranch and Peter’s Valley, and since 2007 at UNC Asheville as a Professor of Art and Public Arts and Humanities Chair. Brent also ran his own studio for eight years, and his work has been shown extensively across the U.S. and internationally.
Giles Carwyn is a husband, father, writer, and certified Shadow Work coach and facilitator who specializes in men’s sexuality. He leads Sexual Shadow Transformation workshops for men and is a co-creator of the Eros Work: Sexuality and Shadows workshop for all genders. His mission is to create a world where everyone is seen, known, and loved by helping people let go of shame and embrace their authenticity. That mission has led to set aside his old career, beliefs and limitations to reinvent himself as a community leader, transformation coach, workshop presenter, and catalyst for lasting positive change in people’s lives.
Check out these videos to get a sense of Stuart’s action-oriented approach to relationship.
