What A Sexually Empowered Man Does About His Sexless Marriage
You’re a rock star at work. You know how to produce. You get results.
Maybe you’re a CEO. A tech startup founder. A high level programmer. A successful entrepreneur.
You know how to figure things out. In fact, you thrive on it. Self-esteem professionally is abundant.
And yet at home, it’s a different story. Your partner complains about you.
You didn’t do this. You didn’t do that. She says, you’re emotionally unavailable.
Maybe your partner has shut down on you. And sex has dropped to a minimum.
Do you feel trapped in a sexless relationship?
Sex is the most direct way a woman tells a man things are not working for her.
She closes her heart. She closes her legs.
And the real trap is not knowing what to do about it.
What should you do about a sexless marriage?
Many guys say, get out. And yet he’s typically just a scared guy just wanting to run. A guy who is not willing to put in the work to turn things around.
And so… I’m going to share something with you that I wish someone had told me years ago, when I was in a sexless marriage with my wife of 15 years.
And that’s this.
Sexuality is not the same thing as sex.
That’s right. There is a distinction between sexuality and sex that’s critical for a guy to understand.
And this distinction can help you get back into your power and out of the despondency of feeling hopeless in a sexless relationship.
Do you know the difference between sex and sexuality?
In the video below filmed from Spain, discover the difference to unlock new powers in yourself to reclaim your sexual health and well-being.
Sexuality is something that lives inside of you. It’s an energy of “turn on.” It’s an energy of excitement.
We typically don’t understand this turn on lives within our self. It is not merely dependent on your partner.
Does your wife own your sexuality?
If so, that’s the trap. And it then manifests as a shut-down in your relationship.
When you understand how your sexuality starts within yourself, you are no longer at the mercy of your wife for your erotic aliveness.
That’s right, erotic aliveness. That’s where sex comes to life.
And yet eros has nothing to do with sex.
Eros lives independently. It is a curiosity, a mystery, a desire to know the unknown and yes, it has a root sensation in the body.
The beauty of tapping into your erotic aliveness is that once you connect with it, you bring a more sexy, alive and attractive self to your partner.
Suddenly, your partner’s wondering, What’s going on with him?
She starts to get curious about you again.
The eros reignites. Sex soon follows.
Do you want to be a sexually empowered man who reignites his sexual relationship with his partner?
If so, let’s have a quick chat to see if you’ve shut down your erotic aliveness.
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