Note: These tips apply to women, as well, taught from childhood to be the “nice girl.” If that’s you, flip she to he, her to him. This blog is a continuation from last week. Last week’s gist was… “Nice guy” behavior has its roots in momma-pleasing behavior from childhood. And as a result, she resents you for it. – So […]
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Sounds horrible. Why would a woman hate you for being nice? Because you’re not just being nice. You’re also being dishonest. “He’s so good to me,” she says. “And yet, something is off.” What she’s not saying is, “There’s something I don’t trust in him.” What is it, that something? Rewind. It all started as a little boy. You’re three years […]
Guys, have you ever found yourself saying, “I can’t make her happy”? Men say this all the time. Married men. Single men. Smart men. Not so smart men. “I feel like I’m always trying with her. But I just can’t get it right.” Where’d we get the idea, as guys, that we have to make her happy? Why do we […]
One swings. One observes. One attacks. One dissolves. One chases. One sits. Who are you? The boxer or the meditator? Are you neither? Or are you both? The boxer steps into the ring. He faces a clear opponent. He protects and attacks. He dodges and jabs. All his powers are focused on self-preservation. He fights to win. The meditator sits […]
Hell no. Don’t listen. Hell yeah. You better listen. Which is it? We’ll get there but first, what happens inside of you when she says, “I need to talk”? For many men, it’s, Uh, oh, I’m in trouble, again? What did I do this time? How’s that possible? You never get it right? I often wondered during 20 years of […]
Are you the guy who feels nothing or feels everything? You know which side of the pendulum you swing to. You’ve been inside of you your entire life. So which is it? Stoic? Or Sensitive? Both have their costs and benefits – from the obvious to the not so obvious. The stoic guy has a wall around his heart. The sensitive […]
Are you the guy who feels horrible when your partner says – “you’re just not open” or “you’re so checked out”? If you’re anything like me, you really take it to heart. You consider how you can show up better. The good news is you care. The bad news is you may forget to look at her, as well. Until you […]
“I know, I know, I’m supposed to love myself,” a client says to me. “Find more self-love and self-trust. But in truth, I just want more than anything to find deep connection with a partner. All of me aches for it.” Can you relate? I hear this from some of my male clients. Felix pauses. He looks me over. His […]
Men, have you ever thought, if only she’d open to me, let me in, I’d be fine? That’s often our story. If we’re not getting it, we feel unloved. (This one’s for the men out there; women may enjoy it as well.) How might we reclaim that power we often give away? When sexual desire takes us over? When we […]
