Ladies, Understand Your Man & Create The Relationship You Want

Do you feel alone in your marriage?

Does your husband take you for granted?

Does he not listen?

Does he act superior or emotionally check out during hard conversations?

Do you feel like you’re on two distant planets?

What if you could change all that? Get your needs met? Feel appreciated? Feel loved?

It all starts with knowing who you are in a relationship with.

How a man’s mind operates.

Why he gets distant when you bring up hard things.

How you may be unknowingly pushing him away.

Why he withdraws when conflict happens.

And how to get him to be more responsive to your needs.

From birth, we men are typically taught to be rational and transactional. This means we are safe in the realm of logic. When faced with matters of the heart, we often feel like we have no control. In these situations, when asked to do what it takes to be relational, we often feel threatened and vulnerable – because it’s such a foreign concept for most of us.

Are you with a man who…

… is stuck in his head?

… struggles to know what he’s feeling?

… has an agenda he tries to impose on you?

… disappears when things get challenging?

… does not fulfill you?

If this sounds like your partner, you’re not alone. You’re in a relationship with a man who’s trying to think his way through his problems, who wants to be better. I can assure you, he’s a good guy. He just has limited relational skills. Let’s fix that!

I will help you…

• Learn to communicate with him in a way that he can hear you.
• Build a relationship where you feel his presence and connection.
• Get out of the conflict zone more efficiently to build trust with him.
• Understand where you might be causing problems that you can easily avoid.
• Create a solid, fulfilling marriage as the anchor of your family.

With women initiating upwards of 90% (yes, a staggering but true number) of the divorces in college-educated couples, it’s clear that many women are not happy in their marriages and they want things to be different.

There are a lot of theories about this, but many miss one simple fact…

Empowered women today want more in a relationship than their male partners are trained to deliver.

In 1:1 conversations with master relationship coach Stuart, learn to improve how you do… 

Conflict

• Identify destructive behaviors and forms of manipulation that cause conflict in your relationship in order to stop them before they wreak further havoc.
• Use conflict to deepen trust and connection instead of eroding them.

Intimacy

• Discover how time spent together doesn’t necessarily equate to emotional intimacy – and how confusing the two can rob you of both.
• Act with vulnerability, paired with healthy self-assertion, as a strength to create more emotional intimacy in your relationship.

Fear & Anger

• Understand how fear and anger are mere protectors, and learn how to transform them into healthy allies to inspire you to go after what you want with your partner.
• Learn how being critical of him causes him to emotionally disappear.

Self-Esteem

• Create the love you seek with your partner by cultivating it first within yourself.
• Understand the difference between love and attachment to transform your self-esteem in your relationship.

Authenticity

• Communicate authentically to draw out authenticity in your partner and create a more fulfilling partnership.
• Identify the masks you wear in your relationship and how those masks stop you from getting your needs met.

I am relationship coach Stuart Motola. I specialize in working with men and women who want to learn how to improve their relationships.

I’ve been through the same struggles as you.

Throughout my 20-year marriage, I experienced many of the issues you may be having. I was the guy who did everything I could to get my wife’s love. But it never seemed like enough for her.

Then one day, I got clear.

I woke up to the realization that my life was too valuable to stay stuck in an unfulfilling marriage, in which I had lost my sense of self, my power, and my confidence.

It was then that I knew that I had to create change, to renegotiate the contract of my marriage. And I did.

To learn more about my story, get the first chapter of my #1 Amazon best-selling book “Fixing You Is Killing Me” sent to your inbox now.

Over the last 15 years, I’ve worked with thousands of people who’ve struggled in their relationships. Some wanted to save their relationship. Some wanted to leave it.

Regardless, what they shared in common was a desire to become a more confident, fulfilled, and happier version of themselves.

If that sounds good to you, then here’s the good news. You’re the kind of woman I am helping.

And the fact that you’re able to identify with those desires is big. It means you have a vision for the relationship you seek.

I work with committed women who are tired of the same dead-end struggles with their partner, questioning the future of their relationship, and wanting to improve their marriage or relationship to confront their relationship problems once and for all.

If you’re ready to create something truly extraordinary for yourself, fill out the questionnaire below. All answers are completely confidential and will only be seen by me.

I look forward to hearing from you and I welcome your questions. You can expect to hear back from me within one business day.

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