Pivot When She Says You’re Not On Her Team
Men often come to me exasperated.
They’re working hard at their job, helping out at home, and with their kids. And then they hear their partner say, “I don’t feel like you’re on my team.”
It often leaves a guy feeling blindsided. What? Not on your team? I’m busting my ass for you.
Have you ever been told that you’re not on your partner’s team?
It can be a dispiriting moment when you’re trying to show up in a good way with your partner. And often, it can get you feeling down on yourself.
You might even leave you wondering, Is anything I do good enough for her?
What if instead of kicking yourself you did something else?
What if you did a pivot?
You know, that simple move on the basketball court.
Pivot away from her and back to yourself the next time your partner says, I don’t feel like you’re on my team. It’s a great tactic to not be at the mercy of your partner’s complaints.
Find out how in the super short video below.
Say what, a basketball move?
Yes, the pivot. Remember this one word the next time you feel your partner coming at you with a charge.
And if you’re thinking, I don’t get it or I need help, send me a quick email and I’d be glad to coach you through it.
