I initially started working with Stuart to help me with my marriage and repair years of broken trust and safety within my relationship. What started as a journey to fix my marriage, evolved into something I wasn’t expecting. What I learned was how to repair the relationship with myself, uncovering parts of my inner being that I was unaware of, while enhancing some of the best features and characteristics I have as a human. He’s helped me transform into the man I’m supposed to be while teaching me about archetypes and other tools I was unable to learn in over 5 years of therapy. Stuart isn’t just a coach who helps guys get it right in their marriage, he’s a friend who creates a safe space for a man to be vulnerable and honest, allowing him to grow, heal, and evolve into the person they are supposed to be.

Before I started working with Stuart, I felt I had lost my sense of identity in my marriage. I struggled to claim who I was and often acquiesced to my wife’s needs. Over the course of six months, Stuart helped me to take a step back from who I was in my relationship. He gave me the tools which helped me grow again and to find my true self. I learned how to be myself in my relationships, both with my wife and with colleagues. I’m now excited about my life and future prospects – I feel like I can assert myself in the world again.

When I started working with Stuart, I was in the worst place I have been in my life. Stuart, with his coaching, gave me the tools to find the way back to my true self, to a place where I can assert myself and, at the same time, recognize my emotions. Where I can be kind and welcoming without betraying who I am.

Working with Stuart, I went from the rat wheel to a place of clarity and empowerment in my relationship.

I tried so hard with my wife at the time. All I did was try and it was never good enough. I’d resigned myself to not being enough for her. This is marriage, I assumed, what I signed up for. But during my work with Stuart, I learned to detach from her story of who I was. I learned to determine my own path, live my own truth, instead of being subject to hers. I came back into my own sense of who I was, and my wants and needs. And that was the greatest gift of my work with Stuart.

After trying to solve my relationship challenges with several therapists, who did not help me address the core of my problems, I thankfully came across Stuart. In a short time, he helped me reclaim my relationship with myself, so that I could get clarity on the future of my marriage. Stuart’s experienced guidance has been a transformational experience for me.

Dave West